Attitude is defined as a way of thinking or feeling about something or someone, and we all have attitudes about just about everything.
The question is, is your attitude positive or negative?
This might not sound like a big question, but it’s hugely important, because your attitude often determines how you feel, which influences your behavior and affects the outcome.
For example, if you feel good about yourself you will act accordingly. When you feel good about yourself (positive self-esteem), you feel strong, powerful, capable, competent, loveable, and valuable. When you feel that way you will walk through life with your head high, surrounding yourself with positive people and situations.
The same is true for when you have a positive attitude about someone else, or a situation. If a negative situation arises, you can still find the good in it, and move ahead with a positive, can-do attitude. You will choose to be positive about whatever is in front of you, and will feel and act accordingly.
However, if you have a negative attitude, you will find the bad and focus on what is not working or what makes you unhappy. When you do this you will attract more negative situations and people into your life.
It really is up to you.
There is usually good and bad in everything, and you always have a choice about how you want to view it. You get to choose your perspective, and then act on it.
So if things aren’t going well for you, you might want to ask yourself if you need an attitude adjustment.
It’s something to think about.
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